The solution to your life is to set your sights on an impossible ideal and work hard to reach it. You never will.
That’s not just okay, that’s the point.
For example, it’s okay to fantasize about becoming the perfect mother if you then try to learn to be a perfect mother. Eventually you will understand that you will never actually be a perfect mother, and then you will die.
And it will have been worth it.
– TLP (edited)