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Once again, porn

On the technological importance of porn (cannot be overstated, really)

Negative views on porn (porn is for people who are not interested in having sex with real humans)

Ethical porn (autostraddle.com has many many many articles on porn – here’s another one, mostly statistics on how much we love porn)

 

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Gratuitous photo of Malena Morgan, my favorite porn star

 

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I have a lot of strong feelings about porn, which I don’t manage to discuss seriously as much as I want to, for obvious reasons. (Also, I’m iffy about making this post, not sure if it’ll be taken down or what, but this is something that’s been on my mind for a long time now so I’ll go ahead and make it, hopefully my account won’t be purged.)

Porn, in general, has been an overwhelmingly positive force in my life. It has helped me get in touch with my own body and feel much more comfortable with myself. It feels healthy, like a lot of tension is being released and I feel good about myself and energized (in the morning) or ready for a deep sleep (at night). In my relationships, it’s really fun to share porn – talk about our favorites, what’s plausible, facilitate experimentation…

I feel that a lot of women are missing out on this awesome experience. Masturbation is something that I do for myself, and only for myself – it’s not a substitute for sex – as I said, I do like to share porn with my partners, but that’s just incidental. Sex for me is all about connection. I feel that if people are only after the pleasure, they’d probably be better off masturbating. (Well, that’s what I think now. Maybe that will change when my heart turns completely black, or something.) So, masturbation doesn’t take the place of sex – it’s a totally different experience that serves a different purpose (my solitary pleasure). It’s special because it’s a pleasure that feels so pure and complete, without any other motive, and also without repercussions (unlike, say, eating unhealthy things or shopping a lot).

It’s a shame, an utter shame, for any women to miss out on this.

Another incidental thing about porn / masturbation is that, after feeling more connected with myself, I was more comfortable about connecting with my body with someone else.

It’s quite clear that porn has tremendous influence in society. I hope that in the coming years it can become a much more positive influence and that it could become a subject that would be discussed with a little less snickering and a lot more serious interest in its possibilities.

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One thought on “Once again, porn

  1. All I can say is that, Malena Morgan is the most beautiful (and best) pornstar I’ve ever seen and watched (yeah). And, I think her retirement last 2013 was a good thing for her.

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